這樣子該分手嗎..? - 包包

上禮拜是我生日,那一整天他卻和他朋友出門我之後問他你什麼都不表示不會太誇張嗎他說他不敢約我,怕約了我會不高興(請問有什麼好不敢約的==?整個很無言)>>>那妳以後到節日前自己先說什麼節日要到了喔妳就說我想要怎樣怎樣若他還是一樣白痴裝傻他就是故意的就連情侶間最基本的天天聯繫要不是我跟他說,他還是會每天都只過他自己的生活>>>一樣妳也先說好大概何時都要打給妳我是和我男友說中午一通下班一通中午是因為我常常不吃東西他某天打給我問我吃了嗎後來他就每天問我說我希望你下班告訴我一下我才知道你安全回家了這樣每天打也九個月多了而且我們是天天見面的之前剛交往時也是睡了才打給我想到我之前是整天待在家打電腦後來被我勸終於肯出門但是也只有早上去打球也不會去找工作...找到了又嫌遠....之類的>>>他個性比較懶散其實也等於比較沒有擔當的男生PS他是獅子座而且很愛哭每次哭都會拿他是'獅子座'這一點來說(他說獅子座比較愛哭啊)獅子座不會這麼軟弱吧....>>我男生朋友獅子男不會這樣而且對工作很有擔當責任心很重也許家裡很寵他讓他變成這樣我獅子男生朋友是失戀才會哭不然他們不會亂哭他們沒這麼弱可能只是大學生吧看得世界太少了我的獅子男生朋友高中都讀到休學但是很早出社會就很有想法和擔當不是每個獅子男都這麼沒用2012-09-0711:54:53補充：1.我男友也是被動型的所以很多事情都要我說而且他又沒交過女友所以都是我主動說我和樓上大大一樣認為你們年紀太小看的也不一樣雖然我男友被動我說什麼做什麼但是我說他會做2.我認為自己要什麼說什麼沒關係吧你們關係那麼差嗎沒有好到說敢說什麼嗎還在顧忌什麼嗎妳就直接說妳想要幹嘛做什麼就直接表明但是若他還在裝死裝白痴他就根本是故意不想若他是一個對別人都不會送的人怎麼會想到要送妳我男友不會送任何人禮物包括他家人我男友我生日會直接問我要什麼而不是偷偷買也不是買好給我連求婚都是我說我想要浪漫地點就好因為他也不會太多花招節日和對方說要個禮物送個東西也沒關2012-09-0711:55:01補充：我妹和前前男友分手就是他太被動禮物也不會送但是她都不會說直接分那幹嘛不直接和男生說就好若講了還不表示那不就更沒心根本不想送情人節也是我提前和我男友說我們去吃飯也是我說我要包包他有買給我也有帶我吃飯我不認為開口就是不好的2012-09-0811:12:27補充：我覺得和年紀有關比較不會想也不會在乎女友我遇到的獅子男會常常帶東西給女友吃或她下課都找她我姊妹獅子男他現在住彰化也常常載女友往南投或到處跑反正就是很勤勞不會這樣不顧女友他們一個人時會比較懶可是戀愛時很勤勞根本是見色忘友@@可惡阿我覺得他一直再找藉口直接開始用逼的如果他在不敢妳就真的分手吧妳不是要個沒有用的男人吧說幾次了還是不敢那就是沒用2012-09-0811:13:27補充：直接告訴他在不主動還不敢就要分手了他若還不在乎那他根本不喜歡妳我的獅子男生朋友都很重女友的他都一直搞消失>2012-09-1010:37:49補充：那就是妳逼的方法或說法不對導致他還是一樣自我根本不顧妳的感受幹嘛要等他以為他是誰阿又不是多好幹嘛浪費時間等我男友快30歲都說不想讓我等他憑什麼要妳等三年妳不真的逼他他不會鳥妳他知道你根本不會和他分手...

3年都不改，還會改嗎？不理你＝被動，哪算什麼男朋友工作遠＝很懶，這年輕就這樣沒前途不會賺錢，嘴不甜，這種人只能跟電腦相處。不該跟你相處。為什麼要等3年？3年他就當董事長嗎？這種人，3天都不該等。這樣就要哭，怎麼可能找的到工作？怎麼當董事長？找新對象吧！...

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分了吧跟獅子座沒有關係!

直接說好了道歉只有2種能搞定1.就是直接表達你的想法和當初立場(加以說明.得到對方認同)2.如果你真的在乎就多忍耐吧我的建議是如果你已經覺得你對方有錯~就直接和他說.沒有啥不可原諒~又不是殺人放火~我想一起一段時間一定有感情對方因該很不知道自己不對.感情沒有對錯.只要對方認同我想很簡單.當初我我做一個素描瓶中畫.上面告訴我老公問題我老公收到可能看到我用我們去照片用的那張素描.有想起自己不對.就改變了結論沒有表態就等於沒有努力想改變...

時間拖月久感情會累積越深如果是吵架分手那還好如果越來越愛到最後分不掉你也只好認命了如果你是喜歡感情穩定的好女孩,這樣的男生依照你的形容,他的個性及找工作的態度在將來是無法照顧你的,除非他家有錢或是你家有錢男人最個性無聊就算了,最怕連事業心都沒有,出社會後是很現實的,不要真的交往久了青春被他拖了幾年才發現個性這種事情是無法改變的,只有互相摩合,不要期待他會為你改變,就算改變也只是一時的,通常戀人就是在互相包容,如果你已經快受不了他的個性,你無法調適,那想清楚就分手吧,除非你願意自我調適包容他的個性,勸你還是多看看外面的世界好男人還很多~分手吧...

妳男朋友好被動喔......在分手前你可以嘗試做一些事情看可不可以挽回!!當然前提是你真的有心要挽回!!遇到這種人不要說星座給他劈頭一擊!!既然他說你不說他們嚜會知道那你就坐下來把一次不滿簡單快速的說給他聽請他去找工作因為這樣你會覺得他沒有擔當而且工作本來就沒有輕鬆的!!請他有話直說你們是男女朋友跟家人一般親密不用怕約不成尷尬等等..而且你可以叫他每天打電話給你可能晚上或白天幾點都好!!~給他時間比較好或是想你也可以打給你或是他要跟誰出門幾點回家報備也行~要準備開始玩線上遊戲也可以說結束行程也可以打!!!不要一整天活像你單身一樣...你可以告訴他這是你給的最後一次機會不把握就好聚散吧!!順便看看他有沒有心經營這段感情如果以上這些或是有更多缺點講了都沒去執行或改變可以分手了!!!因為女人要的肩膀不能是個軟弱無法依靠的!!...